A couple of years ago, my wife and I stayed at a great bed and breakfast in Bend, Oregon called the Cricketwood Country B&B. We had never stayed at a B&B where we could get free cookies, ice cream, and beer at no charge whenever we wanted. Also, the hospitality of the owners in making us feel welcome at their beautiful and relaxing place on 10 acres with stellar views and comfortable rooms made our two-night stay particularly memorable. The gourmet breakfast, which is included in the room rate, simply has to be experienced to be believed.
When it came time to check out, I told one of the owners how much we enjoyed our stay. He said that he appreciated the kind words. Then, he whipped out his business card and said, "If you wouldn't mind sharing your opinion with others, I would really appreciate your taking the time to put your comments on one or both of the websites that many people who visit Bend check out." On the back of his card, the URLs for TripAdvisor and Yahoo! Travel, two of the leading travel websites, were noted. Of course, as marketer, I admired his focused approach at directing testimonials and had to ask whether this was helping his business. He asked me, "How did you find Cricketwood?" When I responded that I chose Cricketwood because it was (and still is) the top-rated B&B in Bend according to TripAdvisor, he just smiled.
Of course, it's nice when customers tell you nice things about your business. But, do those words have a long-term impact. Why don't more business owners direct fans to customer review websites where testimonials will reap long-term benefits? I'm sure that fear of coming across as demanding is a major concern. Yet, if people love a business, many will be happy to post a testimonial or review online where it will most impact the business. They just have to be asked to do this.
Experience has taught me that many business owners don't direct testimonials because they fear hearing "no." To get over this concern, I strongly recommend a powerful book called "Go for No!" which is an engaging story about how embracing "no" rather than fearing it is the path to success. If you like the book, you'll enjoy the entertaining and motivating "Go for No!" movie which is now out on DVD and features interviews with 50 top performers in a variety of professions sharing their stories about how they achieved success following a simple principle: "You can achieve virtually ANYTHING you want in life if you are willing to hear 'No' often enough!"